feeling of insecurity in relationships
Assalamualaikum.
Last week me and a few friends talked a lil bout love stuff until we reached the topic insecurity. One of them admitted that she had this feeling of insecurity in relationships after what she had experienced before - being lied to.
Last week me and a few friends talked a lil bout love stuff until we reached the topic insecurity. One of them admitted that she had this feeling of insecurity in relationships after what she had experienced before - being lied to.
From the conversation, I can say that most of the feeling of insecurity come after a break up. When a relationship ends, you just can't imagine how disorienting it can be, especially when one of the two is very committed to the relationship. Then when you are up to start a new relationship, you would feel terrify that someone else would steal your partner away from you once again.
Feeling insecurity in relationships happened when you are not confident of yourselves. When you think that you are not good enough for your partner in the matter of look or whatever, you will always think that he or she will be looking for someone to replace you. ~Oh i have this feeling. =="
If you ask me, I will try not to deal with issues that leave me feeling intimidated. It is okay to avoid the issues, but I am a total liar if I said I am not worry of it at all, then I tend to start talking about the stuff that makes me feel insecure again. huhu. I am just being self-protective. I think that I need an answer, and I will find it.
That is the difference between a man and a woman - how they deal with insecurity. A woman usually will openly discuss this among close friends in an attempt to get over them so then she will feel better. However, a man keeps them as a top secret. This made us think that only woman have the feeling of insecurity.
Me? I seldom discuss this with my close friends because I prefer to tell my partner personally but finally it will end with a ----- no more texting. lol
~Let it be, it is just because man usually do not understand the complexity of a woman, and women herself never realized how complicated they are.
Feels like errr- what am I babbling about here? haha. Pergi dulu, jangan rindu-rindu ;)
Feeling insecurity in relationships happened when you are not confident of yourselves. When you think that you are not good enough for your partner in the matter of look or whatever, you will always think that he or she will be looking for someone to replace you. ~Oh i have this feeling. =="
If you ask me, I will try not to deal with issues that leave me feeling intimidated. It is okay to avoid the issues, but I am a total liar if I said I am not worry of it at all, then I tend to start talking about the stuff that makes me feel insecure again. huhu. I am just being self-protective. I think that I need an answer, and I will find it.
That is the difference between a man and a woman - how they deal with insecurity. A woman usually will openly discuss this among close friends in an attempt to get over them so then she will feel better. However, a man keeps them as a top secret. This made us think that only woman have the feeling of insecurity.
Me? I seldom discuss this with my close friends because I prefer to tell my partner personally but finally it will end with a ----- no more texting. lol
~Let it be, it is just because man usually do not understand the complexity of a woman, and women herself never realized how complicated they are.
Feels like errr- what am I babbling about here? haha. Pergi dulu, jangan rindu-rindu ;)
p/s : I love the way you keep you cool when I am complicated~
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dan saya juga,
seorang yang tidak menaruhkan harapan yang tinggi
takut disakiti lagi
morning dear :)
rasa macam ni..
then bila dah lama..
the secure feeling tuh dah ada,
sometimes kena cakap elok2 dekat partner..
then he'll understand :)
perempuan, jangan tunjuk sgt kebodohan mempertahankan sesuatu yg x pasti. rileks sudah... mmg la takut boifren di rampas org, tp x perlulah kot sampai buat perangai yg annoying.
ok. bunyi mcm emo. bai.
dan akhir nya, menjadi bahan ketawa, tapi its a gud thing lah.
hilang stres, and perspektif akan menjadi lebih luas, selalu nya.
heh.
but for me, i had become like this not because of experience but being scared after seeing too much 'drama' in other couple life...being dumped and lied..