Mengumpat, Dosa yang Tidak Diampunkan Allah

Assalamualaikum.

Lama tak buat entri dengan tag 'Islamic City'. Kebetulan semalam maCy terbaca dari komen seseorang di Facebook, "realiti yang sentiasa ada di sekeliling kita, telinga rasa nak dengar, mulut rasa nak beritahu, hati rasa nak menambah.." --> merujuk pada mengumpat lah kan?

Sabda Rasulullah: “Wahai org beriman dgn lidahnya, tetapi belum beriman dgn hatinya! Janganlah kamu mengumpat kaum Muslim, dan janganlah kamu mengintip keaiban (menjaga tepi kain) mereka. Sesungguhnya, sesiapa yg mengintip keaiban saudaranya, maka Allah akan mengintip keaiban, dan dia akan mendedahknnya, meskipun dia berada dalam rumahnya sendiri.”
(Hadis Riwayat Abu Daud)

Mengumpat diertikan dengan menceritakan keburukan seseorang meskipun ianya benar ATAUPUN menceritakan mengenai seseorang mengenai sesuatu yang sekiranya didengari olehnya, akan menimbulkan kemarahan atau rasa sakit hati. Fitnah pula diertikan sebagai menceritakan keburukan seseorang padahal ia tidak benar.

Menurut Imam Al-Ghazali, terdapat 6 faktor manusia mengumpat :

1. Ingin memuaskan hati akibat kemarahan memuncak hingga sanggup mendedahkan keaiban orang lain.
2. Suka mendengar dan mengikut perbualan teman yang menyerang peribadi dan kehormatan orang lain.
3. Mahu bersaing dan menonjol diri dengan menganggap orang lain bodoh.
4. Berasa iri hati dan dengki dengan kejayaan orang lain.
5. Bergurau dan melawak dengan mencela dan mengatakan sesuatu mengenai kecacatan dan kelemahan orang lain.
6. Sikap suka mengejek dan mencela disebabkan rasa bongkak dan sombong kerana memandang rendah pada orang lain.

(Sumber) 

Ramai diantara kita menyedari bahawa mengumpat itu adalah salah, namun tidak mengetahui dosa mengumpat malah tidak sedar sebenarnya mereka sedang mengumpat! Dan diakui, maCy sendiri selaku seorang perempuan biasa adakalanya terjebak juga dalam situasi mengumpat. Asyik bersama berbual, tidak sedar mendengar malah menambah cerita pula mengenai keburukan seseorang. Parah!

Dosa mengumpat tidak diampuni oleh Allah melainkan oleh orang yang menjadi mangsa umpatan. Maka, sekiranya kita pernah terlanjur mengumpat, segeralah memohon maaf kerana dosanya adalah kekal dan pembalasan adalah pasti di akhirat.

Dari Jabir dan Abi Said, Rasulullah SAW bersabda:
“Awaslah daripada mengumpat, kerana mengumpat itu lebih keras daripada zina. sesungguhnya seseorang terkadang ia berzina dan bertaubat. maka diterima Allah swt akan taubatnya. Dan sesungguhnya seseorang yg mengumpat, tidak akan diampun dosanya sebelum diampuni oleh org yg diumpatnya itu.”

Semoga Allah melindungi kita dari dosa telinga yang mendengar, lidah yang berbicara serta hati dan akal yang mengatur bicara. Amin..

Working hard on my stamina again :)

dongeng maCy : Puteri Katak

Assalamualaikum.

Hujan renyai-renyai. Kedengaran katak-katak puru mengaum memanggil hujan. Kelihatan sepasang kekasih sedang bersandiwara antara satu sama lain. Sang jejaka memandang wajah si gadis penuh rasa cinta. 

"Sayang sayang sayang?", tanya sang jejaka. 

"Sayang. sayang sayang sayang.", jawab si gadis sambil melentokkan kepalanya di bahu sang jejaka.  

Peluang baik ni. Getus sang jejaka dalam hati. Tanpa melengahkan masa, sang jejaka terus mencium si gadis kerana ketidaksabarannya. 

Ka-cing! Berubahlah si gadis menjadi katak semula.

will be spending cuti maulidur rasul di rumah lecturer :)

Old Time Short Story : God Is Fair To Us

Assalamualaikum.

 

“I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let go, things go wrong so that you appreciate them when they're right, you believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself, and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together.” 

::. Marilyn Monroe

“Damn it!”, shout Lisa 

“What’s the matter?”, her roommate, Fay, sat beside her.  

“I broke up with him.”, said Lisa.  

“That must be hard. It’s okay. You will meet a better person”, she tried to comfort her.  

“But I never trust a guy as much as I trusted him. It’s such a deep pain!”, she cried. Fay does not know how to handle the situation. She once fell in love but her love story was such a misery. Fay is a pretty young lady. Anyone may fall in love with her even only in their first sight.  

She slowly opened the door and stepped out her pink-painted apartment, walked along the sidewalk, then put herself on a bench. Her past memories began to play inside her mind.  

 ***

It was a dark night. The rain was heavy and the road was empty. She forced herself to wait for the rain to stop under the bus stop. Suddenly, she saw a body ran towards the bus stop. After a while, the guy tried to talk to her.              

“Excuse me, what are you doing here alone in the middle of the night?”, asked him. He just watched Fay’s act. Maybe she did not hear me, thought him.              

Reluctantly, she answered, “I am just back from a night class”.              

“This place is not safe for you. By the way, my name is Hafiz. I worked there”, pointing his finger to a building next to a school.              

“I’m Fay”, She introduced herself. Their conversation continued until the rain stopped. Hafiz was nice. As a bonus, he was good-looking too. Since the incident, they meet everyday, and as expected, their friendship turned out to be a love story.              

However, things had changed after she heard that Hafiz’s parents had planned his marriage with his cousin. It was such a nightmare. All she could do was only by making her life as busy as possible so then she can forget everything. For her, God wasn’t fair for not letting her to live happily with her loved one.              

 ***

“Fay..”, she heard a voice. All the memories disappeared from her mind. She turned her head. She couldn’t believe her eyes. She saw him! Yes, it was her first and only love, Hafiz!             

“I’m back. I told my parents that I’m not going to marry my cousin. As the exchange, I’ve been sent to Australia to manage our business there. Can we start all over again? My heart is still yours”, said Hafiz without giving Fay a chance to speak.              

With a smile, she hugged him.              

“Hafiz, I’ve been waiting for you for the whole past years. I waited for no one else!”, she started to cry.              

“God is fair is it? He is always fair to us!”, she added in sobbed.

A long time short story when I was 18. Duhh. I'm now 22. Time past real fast!

Oh, please forgive all the grammar mistake :)
alang, imy~