words kill. think before you speak
Yesterday i texted my ex, asking if he's okay. To make it clear, a few days ago he texted me asking for my opinion about his girlfriend act. He explained the situation and ask if if I would do the same too. - The answer is i won't cz I think what had happened was just a very simple matter.
And yesterday I received a message from my summer which made me feel better. Since I thought that my situation was almost the same like what had happened to him before, I would love to suggest him to say the same thing to his girlfriend so she would feel better like I did.
Everything was okay until he said something that make me feel insulted - that thing was nothing to do with his case. I didn't argue that much and finally he said, 'boleh tak bezakan joke dgn serious?'. His responses were always like he really meant of saying of those things at the beginning but after I said several stuff he suddenly said he was just joking.
So the thing I wanna say is, words kill. Think before you speak. I am not being busybody, just concern. As I am actually a very caring person, when someone complain something to me, I'll always ask him or her back if he or she is already okay. Like last time my friend told me he was hospitalized, I called or texted him everyday until he the day he was discharged. I just couldn't help myself.
I am no fun, cool or anything but atleast I always try to be helpful to the others. As in this case, I'm just being concern. Yes, he is my ex, but he was my bestfriend before. He did broke my heart, leaving a loyal me for another girl, just because we were separated by distance and he got closer to the girl during a camp. But he's my friend still. I am actually not suppose to spill everything here, but you just can't imagine how disappointed I feel.
Just remember, if you say something nice, you can brighten the whole day but if you say something rude or stupid, the words will just ruin it.
p/s : i love sandwiches.yummy.